The August Slowdown: Using the Quietest Month to Build Self-Awareness
There is a common misconception that reflection and integration happen automatically when we rest. They do not. The nervous system needs a certain quality of quiet, not emptiness, but spaciousness, to do its deepest consolidating work…
From the Therapist’s Chair: The Difference Between Solitude and Loneliness
In the middle of a cold Toronto winter, we spend a lot of time indoors and, often, a lot of time alone. In my practice, I frequently hear people struggle to figure out if they are enjoying their own company or if they are slipping into a state of loneliness.